How to use lubricant?

Lubricant can be a valuable addition to intimate moments, but using it correctly is essential for a pleasurable experience. Research has shown that women derive more pleasure from sex when using lubricant. Therefore, this article will address the question: how do you use lubricant and when?

When do you use lubricant?

Lubricant functions to make penetration during sex smoother and more comfortable. For sex involving vaginal penetration, lubricant is usually not necessary as the vagina produces a natural lubricant when the woman is sexually aroused. However, vaginal dryness can occur due to certain medications or other causes, requiring the use of lubricant to facilitate painless sex. Lubricant can also be beneficial when having sex in water, such as in a bath or shower, as water may wash away the natural vaginal lubricant. Silicone-based lubricant is helpful in such situations. For anal sex, lubricant is necessary as the anus does not produce natural lubrication. Using lubricant can also aid in smooth penetration when using sex toys, masturbating, or engaging in dry humping, generally enhancing the experience. There are also special lubricants available that can make intercourse more sensational.

How to use lubricant?

Using lubricant is simple. Apply a small amount to your fingers to warm it with your body temperature. Then, apply the lubricant to the inner part of your labia and rub some onto and around the clitoris. Also, apply a bit of lubricant to your partner's penis. There's no need to apply anything inside the vagina, as the applied lubricant will spread inside through penetration and movement.

How much should you use?

You can never apply too much lubricant, but ensure you use an adequate amount. If penetration still feels rough, take more lubricant. The amount of lubricant you should use depends on yourself and the type of lubricant used. Silicone-based lubricants are thicker and greasier, requiring only a few drops. Water based lubricants are thinner, so you may need to use more to achieve the same results, typically about a teaspoon of lubricant.

When do you apply lubricant?

There's no fixed moment for applying lubricant. You can choose to apply it during foreplay, with silicone-based lubricants also suitable for massages that gradually lead to vaginal and penile stimulation. Alternatively, you can apply lubricant when you're ready for penetration. If you feel uncomfortable about using lubricant and don't want to involve your partner, you can apply it before sex.

How to use a lubricant with a sex toy?

Using lubricant with a sex toy can heighten your orgasm. For sex toys, it's often preferable to use a thicker lubricant that stays in place better. Apply the lubricant to yourself and a bit onto the sex toy you intend to use. Note that if your sex toy is silicone-based, it's advisable to use a water-based lubricant.

How do you use lubricant for anal sex?

Using lubricant is recommended for anal sex. For anal penetration, a thicker lubricant is advisable. Special anal lubricants are developed for this purpose. Apply anal lubricant as follows:

• Massage the buttocks with the lubricant.
• Massage from the outside toward the anus.
• Apply the lubricant inside the anus, using a reasonable amount.
• Then, apply lubricant to the sex toy or penis.
• If dryness occurs, reapply lubricant during the sex